CONTENT NOTE: SEX. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
The relationship between pop culture icons and politics is always a site
of contention. I, like many others, am guilty of projecting feminist
ideals onto the image of pop stars. I think I avoid it now, especially
since I make an active effort to humanise public figures, and think of
them of people who only know so much. I like to imagine Beyonce doing
mundane things, like cleaning her teeth, and she can only think of so
many things while she's doing that, but despite her public image I can
only speculate what her thoughts are. Anyway, the intersection of pop
culture and politics can often be found when you think about ideas of
the public and the private, intention and humanity, ideas of
respectability and responsibility.
Much like Beyonce, Rihanna
has copped a gigantic amount of criticism from all sides of the room.
She's too feminist for non-feminists, yet her decisions, especially
regarding Chris Brown, cause her to be disparaged by certain feminists.
But her position as a younger black woman of colour and her push to
present herself in an authentic way, especially through her notorious
Instagram account @badgalriri, is simultaneously ordinary and
extraordinary. It's extraordinary in its ordinariness, in the ways she
shows her multiple dimensions as an otherwise extremely commodified
woman of colour.
As a woman of colour working through the same
systems as Rihanna, I find inspiration in her agency. Not in terms of
her economic capital (which incidentally is nothing but large if you
listen to 'Pour it Up') but in terms of her expression of self in a
society that rejects her, either as a human being or as the Bad Girl pop
star she's constructed. Her choice to reside on one side of the
virgin/whore dichotomy was partially enforced by the Chris Brown
incident, and she decided to make the most of it, culminating with her
most recent album titled 'Unapologetic'. When the sunny pop princess
image shattered, it seemed that Rihanna made the most of the
transformation and rebirthed as a sexually independent, expressive and
fun-loving woman. Her songs reflect this transformation, and while she
leaves room to express emotional turmoil, she also articulates a sexual
hunger that revolves around her own wants and needs rather than pleasing
others. Songs like 'Rude Boy', 'Cockiness (Love It)', 'S&M' and
'Birthday Cake' express a sense of sexuality that is often placed as
exterior to ideas of love and intimacy, rebuking the idea that feminine
sexuality is more emotive and centred around relationships rather than
the more straightforward idea of pleasure for pleasure's sake. In 'Watch
N' Learn', she emphasises reciprocacy and the idea of a partner
pleasing her sexuality as representative of their feelings for her. This
attitude is unique in mainstream pop culture, as the majority of other
sexual songs are implicitly or explicitly centred around male pleasure.
Rihanna makes it clear that she is not purely instrumental in that
pleasure, reclaiming it as something that she definitely benefits from
(sooner or later): "Make me a priority; there's nothing above my
pleasure."
I could go on about the various ways Rihanna
inspires me, in terms of body image, the way she subverts classic
survivor narratives, and her strength in the face of public scrutiny.
But largely I want to emphasise that while structurally Rihanna is
complicit in neo-liberal blah in her highly commodified music/self,
there is an element of authenticity that I think is irreducible, from
her expressions of her lower-class Bajan background, to her subjectivity
as a woman of colour.
The whole virgin/whore dichotomy is so deeply engrained in society... I really don't think some men can get their heads around the fact that women can be sexually liberated without being promiscuous (and even if they are, who fucking cares?!). It's the oldest double-standard in the book and it really grinds my gears. I'm stoked that Rihanna is using her status to remind women that our satisfaction is #1!
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